Jenny B., 25, works in the P.R. division of a major corporation (UK) – “I am a bit of a player in my own way. Being far too busy, and too lazy as well, to invest time and energy in a stable relationship means that I am forced to resort to bars for the odd pick up that makes my week-end brighter.

The only thing I’m looking for in men is the right tool size. I am familiar with the “Size doesn’t matter” philosophy, but I have to disagree.

Suzy Q., 33, single mother (Australia) – “Six years have passed since my divorce from George and now that everything is past me I can say that his poor sexual performance was one of the causes that led to the breakdown of our marriage. George simply wasn’t good enough in bed, although he was a kind husband and a good provider.

At the start of our marriage I thought I could overlook his being less than average in size and that his strong points would make up for this loss. Well, after a couple of years I had to face the facts:

I was very horny and unsatisfied. His penis was too small for my needs and he came too quickly. I tried to talk to him about it, but he was too much of a prude to like such conversations. We drifted apart and one day we found out there was no point in staying tied to each other.

I think we could have worked things out, but in the end he refused to face the problem and do something about it.”